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- BEHAVIOR, Page 82Straight Talk on Sex in China
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- Surveys reveal the breadth and depth of the new permissiveness
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- The Chinese may still be repressed politically, but their
- sexual behavior has undergone a sweeping liberation. The past
- decade of economic and social reform spawned a new
- permissiveness that was not suppressed by the soldiers sent to
- occupy Tiananmen Square. For the first time, Chinese
- sociologists have conducted extensive surveys to document the
- spread of the sexual revolution in the world's most populous
- nation. Their main conclusions: like most other populations,
- the Chinese are having more sex outside marriage and are
- becoming increasingly adventurous in the ways they make love.
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- By far the largest study is the Shanghai Sex Sociological
- Research Center's National Sex Civilization Survey. Using 500
- volunteer social workers, the center obtained responses from
- 23,000 people in 15 provinces to a 240-question survey. The
- project is the Chinese equivalent of Alfred Kinsey's landmark
- studies of sexual behavior in the U.S. Liu Dalin, the study's
- director and China's best-known sexologist, agreed to discuss
- his findings with TIME before they are published. Results from
- a smaller survey of 1,279 men and women in 41 cities, conducted
- by sociologist Pan Suiming of the People's University of
- China, were recently presented at a World Health Organization
- conference.
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- The most striking trend found in Liu's study is the
- deterioration of the strong tie between sex and marriage. In
- the past, young girls were forced into arranged marriages
- shortly after puberty. Now women are forbidden by law, largely
- as a means of population control, to marry before the age of
- 20, and men cannot take a bride until they are at least 22. But
- relatively few are waiting that long to have sex. Fully 86% of
- those who answered Liu's survey said they approved of
- premarital sex. Such liberal attitudes often persist after
- marriage as well. A surprising 69% of the people surveyed saw
- nothing wrong with extramarital affairs.
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- Predictably, out-of-wedlock pregnancies are on the rise. In
- response, the government has taken a practical, if not exactly
- approving, stance toward the problem. Only a few years ago,
- unmarried pregnant women were fired from their jobs and forced
- to have publicized abortions. Now they are allowed to get
- abortions confidentially.
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- Many Chinese seem to be rediscovering the joys of sex
- annotated by their ancestors more than 370 years ago in the
- banned Ming dynasty erotic classic The Golden Lotus. Liu found
- that 60% of married couples in cities like to have sex in a
- variety of positions. Pan's survey indicated that nearly seven
- out of ten Chinese have had anal sex with heterosexual
- partners. Neither survey explored the extent of homosexuality,
- which is still taboo in China but not uncommon.
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- As in many other cultures, men often get more satisfaction
- from sex than women do, especially in rural areas. In Liu's
- survey, 34% of the couples living in the countryside (as
- opposed to 17% in the cities) said they engaged in less than
- a minute of foreplay or none at all. Partly as a result, 37%
- of the rural wives reported having pain during intercourse.
- Observes Liu: "The males are so rude as to give their partners
- no time to warm up." Pan found that men reached orgasm about
- 70% of the time, in contrast to 40% for women.
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- China is only beginning to discover the downside of the
- sexual revolution. AIDS infections, though still much rarer
- than in the U.S., are spreading rapidly, as are other sexually
- transmitted diseases. Along with promiscuity, prostitution is
- on the increase. By pretending such problems do not exist, the
- government perpetuates misinformation and ignorance. Liu hopes
- his study, which will be published in book form next year, will
- help give the Chinese people the information they need to make
- sex safer and even more pleasurable.
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- By Sandra Burton/Shanghai, with reporting by Meg Maggio/Beijing.
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